Theme: SEEK GOD FIRST

The “Discipleship Moment” is a new initiative dedicated to deepening our journey of faith and growth as a church family. Each month, we will explore a discipleship concept designed to help us become more like Christ in our daily lives. Whether you’re actively involved in ministry or engaging with those in your sphere of influence, the Discipleship Moment will equip you to live out Christ’s teachings and, in turn, guide others to also become followers of Christ. Join us as we commit to Seeking God First, ensuring that every member of our congregation grows in faith and in a discipleship community.

Seeking God first is a major component in the Christian faith. It is the foundation by which every believer should build their lives in order to become everything we were called to be. What follows is a plan for members of the First Baptist Church of Glenarden (FBCG) community to “Seek God First” based on biblical themes and principles that emphasize the importance of putting God first. The ideas and passages included demonstrate the importance of fully trusting God in every area of our lives.

No matter where you are in your relationship with the Lord, putting Him first in all aspects of your life will help you grow closer to Him and find fulfillment in living our His plan for your life.

The Discipleship Moment is to be shared with your ministry members and/or those in your sphere of influence. Be sure to carve out time in your meet ups to collectively walk through the Discipleship Moment.  Included you will find:

1.  Discipleship Moment

2.  Scripture(s)

3.  A Message Summary from Sunday Service

4.  Reflective Questions (1-3)

5.  Prayer of Personal Transformation – Application

Each Discipleship Moment includes tools that you can use to facilitate discussion and develop your discipleship community.

Discipleship Moment:
The ABCs of Family Part 4: Discerning God's Will for Marriage

Scripture(s):Proverbs 21:1; 2 Corinthians 6:14-18; Mark 10:12, Malachi 2:15; 1 Sam. 15:22

Summary:

God looks at marriage as a sacred institution. So, it is important to follow the Bible’s teachings regarding joining with someone in matrimony. Not following the Holy Spirit’s guidance in making decisions about marriage will either make or break you and the relationship. The union can be a blessing or a burden. In 2024, statistics show that the divorce rate is 41% for first-time marriages, 60 % for second marriages, and 73% for third marriages. Marriage is a commitment, as well as feelings of love. God’s principles for marriage should be taught to children and grandchildren as well. Understand that next to accepting Jesus as your Lord and Savior, who you marry is the most important decision you’ll make.

Reflective Questions:
Throughout your time of reflection, use these principles and scriptures to remind yourself that you need to seek God first in all aspects of your life. Believe that you will find Him and receive His blessings and guidance as you serve, love, and teach those who are your FRANCES List.
(Friends, relatives, acquaintances, neighbors, coworkers, enemies, and strangers.)
 

  1. Question:

     Parental Blessings (Proverbs 21:1).  God influences the heart of those in authority in your life. Seek their full blessing, not just consent. Share your journey toward marriage or one you witnessed. Did you seek your parents’ blessing? Why or why not? Did your parents give it?

  2. Question:Salvation Status (2 Cor 6:14-18). – We are warned about being unequally yoked with unbelievers.How can being unequally yoked with an unbeliever affect a marriage? Share any personal experiences or examples you’ve seen.

  3. Question:Marital Status (Mark 10:11–12, Mal. 2:15–16). – Find out not only your prospect’s current marital status but about any previous marriages and engagements.Share a time when you or someone you know got involved with someone who failed to disclose their past marriage or engagement. How did it affect the relationship?

  4. Question: Discern God’s Voice (1 Sam. 15:22).  In marriage, it is important to seek God’s will. How can we discern His voice concerning who we should marry? Share any experiences where you had to rely on God’s guidance and how it led you toward a positive outcome.

Facilitator – Let’s take time to pray for personal transformation.

 

Prayer of Personal Transformation

Father God – Thank You for this discussion and the insights shared about discerning Your voice. As we conclude, we ask for Your guidance in our lives. Help us to be attentive to Your whispers and obedient to Your will. May we seek You in prayer and Scripture, trusting that You will lead us on the right path. Strengthen our faith and our community as we support one another in hearing and following You. In the name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.